
“Evgeny and Evgeniia faced an excruciating choice. Immigration and Customs Enforcement officers told the couple they could leave the United States with their child and return to their native Russia, which they had fled seeking political asylum. Or they could remain in immigration detention in the United States — but their 8-year-old son, Maksim, would be taken away and sent to a shelter for unaccompanied children. In the end, they chose the agony of limbo in the United States over a return to a place where they saw no prospect for freedom or any future for their family… The last time Evgeny and Evgeniia saw Maksim was on May 15” —The New York Times, August 5, 2025. New York Times photo of Evgeny, Evgeniia, and Maksim.
Sophie’s Choice seemed light-years from our time,
a fading tragedy that made us weep
for Streep.
But now with tactics changing on a dime
in brutal ways we thought could not repeat,
sick heat
pervades my belly and begins to climb:
how can we keep denying what it means
when scenes
unspool of parents, guilty of no crime,
compelled to choose the thing that they most fear,
right here?
*****
Melissa Balmain writes: “As the poet Barbara Loots recently put it, what we need right now is a tsunami of truth. I contribute a few drops when I can.”
‘Evgeny and Evgeniia’s Choice‘ first appeared in New Verse News.
Melissa Balmain’s third poetry collection, Satan Talks to His Therapist, is available from Paul Dry Books (and from all the usual retail empires). Balmain is the editor-in-chief of Light, America’s longest-running journal of comic verse, and has been a member of the University of Rochester’s English Department since 2010.
Photo: New York Times photo of Evgeny, Evgeniia, and Maksim.


